About the Song
“To Know Him Is to Love Him”, originally written and recorded by Phil Spector for the The Teddy Bears in 1958, was later covered by Dolly Parton and included in her 1989 album “Blue Smoke”. The song, which became a classic pop ballad over the years, was originally a heartfelt love song reflecting deep admiration and affection for a man, and Dolly Parton’s version brought her signature warmth and emotional depth to it, making it her own.
In “To Know Him Is to Love Him”, the narrator expresses the sentiment that truly knowing someone — understanding their heart, their essence, and the depths of their soul — is the key to loving them completely. The repeated refrain “To know him is to love him” underscores the depth of affection and the emotional connection that exists when you truly understand and appreciate another person. The song encapsulates the universal feeling that love deepens when you experience someone’s true self, flaws and all.
Musically, Dolly Parton’s version of the song features a soft and tender arrangement, with a subtle orchestral backdrop that complements the gentle, loving lyrics. Her voice, clear and sweet, delivers the lyrics with sincerity and a sense of intimacy, making the listener feel as though they are a part of the love being described. The light rhythm and piano arrangement allow Dolly’s voice to shine, creating an atmosphere of warmth and tenderness.
Released as part of the album “Blue Smoke”, “To Know Him Is to Love Him” became a standout track in Dolly Parton’s catalog, admired for its emotional vulnerability and sincerity. The song remains a beautiful example of her ability to convey complex emotions with grace and authenticity. “To Know Him Is to Love Him” continues to be cherished for its timeless message of love, trust, and connection, highlighting the depth of feeling that comes with truly knowing and loving someone.